The Struggle vs The Victory

2-24-2019 Why do Christians feel shame when they feel negative emotions? When a mother has a miscarriage but feels her emptiness isn't christian enough to share? When a woman commits adultery but repents and moves on in secret? When a woman has to file for divorce because her husband won't be faithful? When a woman…

Part 2: Emotionally divorcing your soon to be ex husband

This is a continued post from Part 1. Read Part 1 before continuing 🙂 Don't fantasize the past or the future Another point she makes is to "take off the happy glasses". I was initially nostalgic and trying to blame myself for things in our marriage and make my husband's actions next-to blameless in my…

Part 1: Emotionally divorcing your soon to be ex husband

This process means you will use your brain, not your heart, feelings or emotions. It will hurt now, but keep pressing forward. Keep reading to get some help based off Kate's blog post (link at bottom). This blog post is for women whose husbands have disowned them as wives through separation or divorce. This post…

Is the furnace cranked up high in your life?

...we do not need to defend ourselves....

My Playlist 🎵

Bulletproof - Citizen Way Can't Give Up Now - Mary Mary Cornerstone - Hillsong Drops in the Ocean - Hawk Nelson Not Alright - Sanctus Real Even Then - Micah Tyler...............

Is it your fault?

...a woman does need to address her mistakes, wrong doings, and faults in the past relationship....

When Opportunity Knocked

The grenade has exploded, the pieces have fallen where they may, covered in shame, not mine. My husband has been cheating on me, for years, with multiple women. It’s funny .............